Life's bumps

I have wanted to update our blog for a couple weeks but have not found the time until now. January has been a month of many ups and downs for my family. On New Years day my father called to tell me my mother has stomach cancer. It was a complete shock to our family. I had just gotten back from AZ and my mother did not act sick in any way while I was visiting. I went numb on the phone with my father. When my mother got on the phone I tried to hold back the tears but I lost it when she told me that she will accept whatever Heavenly Father has in store for her. We cried together and had a family pity party. Later that day my mother received a priesthood blessing that said many wonderful things that uplifted all of our spirits.

Just prior to this phone call from my father I had been thinking of what good things may happen for us in 2009. I was excited to set new goals. 2008 was not an easy year for Jeff and I. It was one of the hardest years in our marriage but I know I have grown from the trials we have experienced. The news of my mom put me in a deep depression. I felt it was the last straw I could handle. That evening I asked Jeff for a blessing. Once again my Heavenly Father gave me the comfort, peace, and strength to move forward with daily life. On fast Sunday I was able to bear my testimony. I felt so good to share my testimony of the gospel and of my Savior. In the past month so many people have said things to me that have given me so much strength and peace. I feel they are my angels.

Later on in the week we found out that it looked like the cancer had not spread outside of her stomach. My mother went into surgery last week to have part of her stomach removed. The doctor seemed very pleased with the surgery. We will find out in a couple weeks if my mom will need chemo treatment. My mom is back at home resting and she is doing well. I ask that if you are reading this to pray for my mother. I know that she can be healed according to our faith.

I know these trials we are experiencing will continue to teach us things we need to learn. Patience and long suffering are things I have learned to have more of this past year. I feel I will be able to have empathy for others who may experience similar trials. I have gained a different outlook on life. Enjoy the little things. Laugh when your two year old throws a tantrum. Cherish the time you have with family and loved ones. Show your love and appreciation to your family and loved ones.